life is so short
Sunday, August 24, 2008
haiz ..
we really gt to cherish our beloved friends .. family members and everything around us.
life is so short
i really cant believe how time flies
yesterdae at round 6 plus ..
my mum .. me .. errol and 8th aunt went to visit my first uncle
illness hav forced him to sit on the sofa all dae long ...
he was diagnosed and result shown that he contracted the
3rd stage of liver cancerit was really devastrating ...
my mum broke down when she saw him ..
im shocked myself
he looked so thin and frail
age finally caught up with him
the last i saw of him was durin chinese new year ..
and thats ages ago .. lol!
well .. my 7th and 9th aunts visit him too
last wekk was his birthdae .. so we bought him a cake yesterdae to celebrate
we were told that tis was
his first time celebratin his birthdaebelow are some of the pictures ..
its quite sad actually ...
but he looked really tough and touched
touched cos we celebrate his birthdae and is willin to forgiv wat he did to my aunts years agao ..
tough cos he doesnt wan us to worry bout him
he's goin for his first session of chemo thingy on mondae ..
laser beams la .. can kill cancerous cells one ..
and then see how many percent of cells they can kill loh
u will actually drop all ur hair for tis type
the doctor saes if he wasnt goin for the session ..
the most he could live was about 1 month plusbut if he's willin to go for that tink ..
there is be a possibility that he MIGHT live for a few more years___________________________________________
the cancer lump in his liver was about 0.62cm longand his stomach was really bloated - looks as if he is pregnant for 3-5 months
its terrible
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i guess its his
retributionu may tink that im bad
but thats the truth
he was the first child to get married and my grandmother bought him a HDB flat to stay as a gift ..
but a few months later ..
he throw my mum .. grandmother .. 7th, 8th and 9th aunts .. grandfather out of the house!
their son throw their parents out of the house u noe!
he disregard their cries and slams the door at their faces ..
when my mum get married .. she invited him and his family members to come ..
but they either dun wan or choose to ignore it ..
he was jealous of them - all my aunts and uncle
for wat?
my grandmother bought u a house and u should be grateful u noe!
he saes grandmother nvr dotes on him ..
craps .. rubbish ..
he nvr repented until my grandmother died ..
he was there kneelin in front of her coffin
cryin .. beggin for forgivness ..
its too late!!!!!!he nvr cherished wateva hell he gt ..
took everytink for granted
and when i heard of tis incident ..
i was very furious ..
how could my uncle be so ... ?
no sense of shame
but the moment i saw him yesterdae ..
my anger evaporated ..
he look so pitiful
and his children?
nvr celebrate his birthdaes for him all tis years ..
forgt it .. forgt it ..
im afraid i might get agitated the more i type and recalled the past ..
my mum .. as his sister forgives him and me? as my mum's daughter .. ought to forgives him too ..
arh .. yes ..
took photo with my cousin .. shuwen!
erm .. my hair is quite messy la ..
take it as wind-blown ok?
and charmaine eatin styles?
thats all .. bye
